The gift of grief
the only way out is through
Online release coming soon in 2024
The gift of grief
the only way out is through
Expected online release in 2023
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The only certain in this life is death
Our natural response to death is heartbreak and we express this through grief. Although we all enter this world grieving, our schools, work environments, communities, and families rarely teach us how to process our losses. We learn that mourning is wrong—which leads us to numb, avoid, and suppress our heartbreak.
One in five Americans is diagnosed with mental illness in any given year [1]. Suicide is the second most common cause of death in the US for youth aged 15-24 [2], and kills over 800,000 people a year globally [3] and 48,300 in the USA [4]. Drug overdose kills 81,000 in the USA annually [5]. The autoimmune epidemic affects 24 million people in the USA [6]. What is happening in our world?
Could this surge in mental health issues, suicide, and addiction be rooted in unprocessed grief? Are our addictions an attempt to shove down our sadness? Or is it possible that we mistake sorrow for depression?
The Gift of Grief is a soul-stirring story about how young entrepreneur Joshua makes a decision that leads to his brother’s overdose. After facing deep grief for seven years, he embarks on a journey to understand the heartache he and his parents struggle with. His mission takes him from homelessness to uncovering his true purpose.
The film follows his 10-year pursuit of interviewing grief and trauma experts to learn how to heal himself and others. On his journey, Joshua also leads men’s retreats and trains veterans & first responders to help remedy their loss and trauma. This empowering film will educate and inspire those who have suffered from grief—to unearth meaning and purpose from life’s most painful memories.
“Grief is an expression of our love. To deny it is to deny our love.”
JOSHUA WENNER
the film maker
Joshua is an entrepreneur, veteran, filmmaker, and emotional resilience expert. He has spent the last 20 years growing companies and maximizing human potential—while affecting the lives of over 500,000 humans. He is the founder of Emotional Resilience Training (ERT) and co-founder of the K4 School of Menswork & Valor Warrior Resiliency Programs.
Joshua’s coaching, curriculum, and frameworks are being used to help high-achievers, successful entrepreneurs, men, first responders, veterans, and those who deal with extreme stress and trauma. He teaches emotional resilience tools to help people navigate challenging situations and achieve meaningful results.
In his 1:1 and group coaching, Joshua uses a wide range of technologies to bring results for his clients. These methods include NLP, timeline therapy, hypnosis, gestalt, compassionate inquiry, IFS, inner child work, breathwork, somatic therapy, attachment theory, needs/boundaries work, transformational chairwork, and others.
Joshua is currently in post-production of his film The Gift of Grief, a personal story of how he turned the pain of his brother’s loss into meaning and purpose—including interviews with the world’s top experts in the fields of grief & trauma. The film is expected to be released Jan 2023.
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the vision
My intention behind producing this film is to inspire an active movement toward a grief and trauma-informed society.
A society where:
We recognize the prevalence of grief among all of us
We learn to notice and feel the grief as a gift in ourselves
We acknowledge that whenever we have an emotional reaction, an old wound is being triggered
We understand the imprint of unprocessed grief or trauma on our behaviors and its impact on our relationships
We recognize and witness the pain, grief, or sadness in others versus trying to fix or take away their pain
We learn to observe and allow our own sadness and sorrow without having to fix or take it away
We support connection and compassion as the foundations of safety
meet the team
![Joshua Wenner](https://joshuawenner.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/10/Joshua-Wenner.png)
A FILM BY
joshua wener
![Rare Media](https://joshuawenner.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/Rare-Media.png)
PRODUCED BY
RARE MEDIA
![AKIRA CHANB](https://joshuawenner.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/10/AKIRA-CHANB.png)
CO-PRODUCER
akira chan
![Chris](https://joshuawenner.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/Chris.png)
CO-PRODUCER
christopher hillman
![Tony](https://joshuawenner.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/Tony.png)
EDITOR
tony wise
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SOUND
Tyler Hafer, TRH Audio
characters
![1](https://joshuawenner.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/1.png)
James, Robynne, Joshua & Jeffrey Wenner
![2](https://joshuawenner.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/2.png)
Shakti & Shiva Wenner
interview guests
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dr. gabor mate
Specialist in addiction & childhood development trauma
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Dr. elizabeth kubler ross
On Death & Dying
![David Kessler](https://joshuawenner.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/10/David-Kessler.jpeg)
david kessler
David Kessler Grief & Loss Author & Authority
![Dr](https://joshuawenner.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/10/Dr.jpeg)
Dr. Donna Schurmann
Previous Director of The Dougy Center
![dr ken druck](https://joshuawenner.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/10/dr-ken-druck.jpeg)
dr. ken druck
Grief and Loss Authority
![Kathy Eldon](https://joshuawenner.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/10/Kathy-Eldon.png)
Kathy Eldon
Authority on Grief & Founder Creative Visions
![David Bercili](https://joshuawenner.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/David-Bercili.png)
Dr. David Berceli
Trauma Authority & Founder TRE
![Sunny](https://joshuawenner.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/Sunny-1.png)
Sunny Dawn Johnson
Psychic Medium, Author
![Paun Denniston](https://joshuawenner.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/Paun-Denniston.jpeg)
Paul Denniston
Founder of Grief Yoga
![Diane Gray](https://joshuawenner.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/Diane-Gray.jpeg)
Dianne Gray
CEO of hospice & healthcare communication
![Shane](https://joshuawenner.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/Shane.png)
Michelle & Ellen Shane
Emily Shane Foundation
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Sue wong
Celebrity Fashion Designer
![Collie Landry](https://joshuawenner.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/Collie-Landry.png)
Collier Landry
Murder In Mansfield
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DiDi Benami
American Idol
![Carlena](https://joshuawenner.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/Carlena.png)
Carlena Britch
So You Think You Can Dance
![Diane Gray](https://joshuawenner.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/Diane-Gray.jpeg)
Dianne Gray
CEO of hospice & healthcare communication
![b](https://joshuawenner.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/b.png)
Breanna Wood
Executive Director Dougy Center
![Dougy](https://joshuawenner.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/Dougy.png)
Josh & Silvy
Dougy Center Family